What is not preferred in a threesome?

 

Have you ever had a threesome with your partner or a swinger couple? If you do, how was it? Many people assume that threesome is just adding another person into bed. What is the big deal? After watching a great deal of porn and movies, tinder threesome is not a strange concept to them. At least, that is what they think. Actually, there are lots of things that cannot be learned just by watching porn and movies. Actually, the reality is far different from that in the porn and movies, as well as that in your fantasy. Here are several things that are not preferred in tinder for couples.

Act like you are in a porn

I had a female friend who told me this experience about their first couples dating with her husband. They invited another girl into their house. When things got started, her husband started to take off his clothes and showed off his muscles, even though there was not much of it. That embarrassed her and she quickly stopped it. After that, her husband told her that he learned it from the porn. If you think about it, in most porn, it seems that they all start with a macho man showing off his muscles and trying to turn the other female on. While in reality, if you do that, it will only make other people uncomfortable and awkward, especially you don’t have much muscles to show.

Don’t overreact when you are left out

First, you need to understand that there might be someone being left out in a threesome and that “someone” might be you. It is absolutely normal and inevitable that someone would feel somewhat being ignored occasionally. For example, if you are the third invited, it often started with the couple kissing each other and then invite you in. Before they invite you in, you might feel being left out. Don’t freak out right away. Give them some time. Since they already decide to have a threesome, it won’t be one if they ignore you. If you are one part of a couple and your partner is taking too much time with the third one, don’t overreact. It is also understandable that he/her likes to taste the fresh. You can slightly remind him/her that he should pay more attention to you.

Don’t be too “loving couple”

The purpose of you inviting another person in your sexual life is to sharing your partner with him/her, but not show off to him/her that how much you love your partner. This could easily leave a bad impression to the third that he/she is an extra one who could easily be abandoned. For an example, let’s imagine a situation where three persons together and one of them is you. To make sure everyone is included, you won’t start a subject which can only be talked by two of you, right? The case works the same for threesomes.